2018: the year i made contact

2018: the year i made contact

image of an empty road with the words "happy 2019! wishing you love and peace, yespleasemore.net" in blue and pink over the photo
happy new year!

it’s the last day of 2018 and like a lot of people, i’m feeling reflective about the past year and looking forward to a new one. this year i made contact – through writing a new blog, exploring the online kink community (specifically through social media), and with myself, learning more and more about my body and how it works. i continued to find joy and comfort in my kinky life with Daddy and in creating a more organized, sensual space at home. i started to explore a new career path. i made some dear friends online and learned a lot from them about negotiation, navigating kinky D/s relationships, and love. i learned a lot about my limitations *and* my strengths this year.

making resolutions is a good exercise in self-awareness and long-term planning. i think it’s important to think about what’s doable and to give yourself a break if you don’t quite achieve what you plan in january. as far as my sexy resolutions, here’s my short list:

  • attend sex down south 2019
  • check out local kink resources, especially rope groups who welcome beginners
  • try a butt plug
  • learn to do a simple self-tie and a tie on someone else
  • explore hypnokink
  • collect more fun toys
  • more frequent blogging & a bigger presence on social media, including 1K twitter followers
  • write down our protocols and come up with some new fun ones as we go
  • try to keep a sex spreadsheet
  • keep spreading the love on social media; help make/keep this community safe and positive; express praise and care when needed
  • write more erotica
  • take care of myself, become physically stronger, get acrobatic in the bedroom ☺️

happy new year, dear readers. you are seen and loved. thank YOU for reading my writing and for supporting me this year! 💗